Wedding Speeches: Why are You So Nervous?

By Samantha Breen


Everyone should be happy at a wedding reception.With the new marriage, the celebration is underway and people are very happy.There is plenty of good times and happiness flowing through the room.There is also plenty of great food and drinks for everyone to enjoy.

However, you are not too happy at all.Could it be that you are nervous about giving your wedding speech?Remember, you should be celebrating also.Besides, you and the bride have been best friend since preschool.She has always been a wonderful friend.You are happy for her and her new husband, but you are a bundle of nerves because of this speech.

This is kind of strange, because you were just in a happy mood when everyone was having fun and taking pictures at the wedding photo booth.A photo booth always seems to bring out the kid in everyone.People go into the booth and emerge with the biggest smiles on their face.However, you are just one great big bundle of nerves.

Does this sound like something that you or someone that you know has experienced?If you are not accustomed to speaking in pubic, then the thought of making a wedding speech is probably a very intimidating task.You are not alone.A lot of people are afraid to speak in public.This is a very well known fear.Hopefully, this article can help you to get a better grip on your nerves the next time that you must present a wedding speech.

First, no is wishing that you secretly mess up.Remember that the audience is there for the same reason that you are.They have come to share in a wedding celebration.Mistakes will happen.After all, most people are in good spirits and probably will not notice if you mess up your speech. And if they do, they are not laughing at you.

Second, practice what you are going to say.However, you don't want to memorize it.This is because of two reasons.You don't want to come off as sounding like a robot.Also, you do not want to lose your train of through and find it difficult to get back into the speech.Just compile a few talking points that you want to discuss with the group.

Third, tell a humorous story.If you are close to the bride or groom, share a funny memory.The crowd will really appreciate that you are sharing these treasured moments. Besides, it will help you to relax.

In conclusion, a majority of people are afraid to speak in from of groups of people.But, remember that this is supposed to be a happy time for everyone, including you. The bride and groom wanted you to share this time with them.Don' be afraid.Celebrate this wonderful event and have plenty of fun.




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